If you'd like more information about writing
and/or BDSM, here are some links you might find useful.
Writer/Reader Resources Links
Erotic Authors Association
GLBT Bookshelf
Goodreads
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
BDSM Resources
Wikipedia has a list of basic BDSM terms
for those unfamiliar with them.
She Makes the Rules is a website for women
and men interested in the dynamics of
Female-Led relationships.
A huge variety of books are available
to study every aspect of BDSM.
These are a just few of the ones I've found useful:
At Her Feet: Powering Your Femdom Relationship
by TammyJo Eckhart and Fox
Different Loving:
The World of Sexual Dominance & Submission
by Gloria G. Brame, William D. Brame, and Jon Jacobs
Ethical Slut, The:
A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt
The Loving Dominant
by John Warren
The Master's Manual:
A Handbook of Erotic Dominance
by Jack Rinella